The Journey Begins Where You Are
What is my Purpose in life? Am I here just taking up space?
Many of us grapple with these questions, and the concept of Purpose can feel elusive. Studies from the Stanford Design Lab reveal that over 80% of people either don't have a defined purpose or feel fulfilled by multiple paths that change over time.
But what if Purpose isn't a single, elusive answer we need to find? What if it's a journey, not a destination? Richard Leider, in THE POWER OF PURPOSE, suggests that Purpose evolves with us through life’s stages.
We aren't all born with the mission of saving the world. For some, Purpose is found in smaller, yet deeply meaningful moments- visiting a loved one in a nursing home, creating art with a child, or enduring a challenging job to support family. The key is finding meaning in what we’re doing right now and continuing to cultivate that meaning as we go.
I’m often reminded of Lao Tzu’s quote: “The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” As a Leadership Development Facilitator and Coach, we frequently referenced this quote. It reminds us that significant goals are achieved by taking small, deliberate actions in the present, not by being overwhelmed by the entire journey.
When coaching leaders in transition, I often hear frustration over the inability to define their Purpose. So for today, I see this quote differently. It’s not just about the destination- it’s about starting where we are, appreciating how far we've come, and mindfully choosing the next step.
In a world obsessed with speed and instant action, we often overlook the power of reflection. Yet I believe Purpose begins with gratitude. As Caroline Myss says, when we view our lives through the lens of gratitude, we see that everything in the universe is working for us—even when it doesn’t look like it.
This perspective helps us understand that challenges often fuel growth. Even when life doesn’t unfold as expected, there’s always something to be grateful for, something that propels us forward.
People often confuse passion with purpose. While passion can ignite us, Purpose sustains us. Passion energizes us, but Purpose helps us navigate life’s twists and turns.
As Deepak Chopra reminds us, discovering our Purpose is a lifelong journey—one that should not be rushed. Sometimes, what we think we want isn’t what we truly need. Singer Garth Brooks wisely wrote, “Sometimes I thank God for unanswered prayers.” The universe often has a bigger plan for us, if we’re patient enough to receive it.
As we step into 2025, many of us will face changes, both big and small. I propose a toast to the year ahead: Let it be the year you stop searching for Purpose as a destination and start embracing it as a lifelong practice.
If you're unsure where to begin, consider working with a Coach. By doing so, you’ll unlock your most authentic, powerful self.
By: Lesia Stone, Transition and Mindset Coach for Leaders
January 23, 2025
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